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I Dropped Everything For a Soccer Match
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I Dropped Everything For a Soccer Match
In my last email I shared that I was offered last minute tickets to see the Team USA World Cup match.
I had meetings and obligations all over my calendar. And, for a moment, my “responsible brain” said there’s no way I can actually go. My clients will get angry at the sudden cancellation, I’ll fall behind during a critical stretch, excuse/excuse/excuse.
But, this was a once in a lifetime chance to see a World Cup match with my son…I dropped what I was doing and went to Seattle.
What actually happened: I reached out to my clients, told them the truth, and every single one of them said some version of “AWESOME! Have the best time, we’ll reschedule.”
Nobody fired me. Nothing broke. On Monday night, I stood in a stadium watching the biggest sporting event on the planet with my son instead of sitting in a pile of meetings that could move.
In my old corporate life, that trip probably doesn't happen. Limited vacation days, approvals, obligations to somebody else's schedule. The invitation comes in and the answer is "I can't."
Remember: You’re building a business to serve your life, not the other way around, and this week I got to cash that check.
What have you been meaning to do, wanting to do, and not giving yourself permission to do?
My son heads to Japan for YEAR this fall and we just spend 3 days laughing, bonding, and spending quality time I’ll never get again. Absolutely priceless.
Please open your calendar today, pick the date, and put the thing on it.
Your clients will understand. Mine did.

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Now, GO SELL SOMETHING!
Pat